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VIDEO: Why Big Boys Don't Cry Gareth Griffith TEDxUniversityofBristol TEDx Talks Aug 15, 2018
Gareth Griffith is committed to creating a space for us all to talk about mental health. He believes that we all benefit from increasing the everyday possibilities to articulate those feelings that are far too often left internalised. Don’t miss this incredibly personal talk in which Gareth shares his story of his battle with depression during his time as an undergraduate student, how he found the space to talk, and how he recovered from this low point through helping others to find that space too.
In high-income nations, men commit suicide at a rate three times higher than women... ( World Health Organization (WHO) report)
According to data...., "Men die by suicide 3.56 [times] more often than women" in the United States.
Furthermore, according to data .... 3 million men in the United States and over 6 million men in the country experience anxiety issues each year. Despite these startling numbers, males are less likely than women to have gotten official mental health support .... according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).
Men of color and men from various racial and cultural backgrounds have particular difficulties while trying to maintain their mental health.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLWEr_kdXl4
VIDEO: Single Young Male Crisis IGNORED By Media | Breaking Points Feb 27 2023
Saagar breaks down troubling new data on the ongoing crisis of young single men in the US.
"It is better to be alone than to be involved in a society that makes you feel alone."
"It's all fun and games until society hits a demographic collapse and is forced to confront the issue."
"Young men without prospects and unmet expectations is a scary thing in any society."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_x_0ow3u8Q
Direct Headline: Are We Facing a Mental Health Crisis for Boys?
By Laura McKenna March 11, 2021
.....“I feel pretty lonely and sometimes depressed... because I don’t have no one to go out with, no one to speak on the phone, no one to tell my secrets,” confided one high school boy ..... “I tried to look for a person, you know, but it’s not that easy.”....America’s teens now seem to be struggling more than ever—especially boys. One study found that the rates of depression increased by 52 percent in teens between 2005 and 2017, and in 2019, 70 percent of teens reported anxiety and depression as major problems. For boys in particular, there has been an alarming rise in suicides among older teens (15 and older) since 2000, and they die by suicide at three to four times the rate of girls.....
.... From an early age, boys are encouraged to bury their feelings and present a tough exterior. Experts say these social dynamics have long-term implications for their mental health....According to experts, boys can struggle more than girls because they have fewer tools to cope with emotions and stressors, and they are less likely to get the help they need. Without the means to effectively process emotions, boys are more prone to lash out in unhealthy ways or alienate themselves.....have trouble talking about emotions and feelings because social norms have encouraged them to conform to a masculine ideal that emphasizes values like stoicism, toughness, and competitiveness....A 2020 survey of more than 1,500 youth ages 13 to 19, for example, found that 81 percent of them reported mental health as a significant issue and 79 percent wished their school talked more about it......
....Data shows that boys are nearly twice as likely to get into physical fights as girls, for example...Because boys tend to lack emotional vocabulary—or they don’t feel free to express their feelings—their behavior becomes their communication.....“When a boy is acting out or is disrespectful, instead of personalizing it, we have to target their behaviors and not assault their character....”
https://www.edutopia.org/article/are-we-facing-mental-health-crisis-boys/
Direct Headline: I treat teens who attempted suicide. Here’s what they told me.
By Stephanie Doupnik Nov 6, 2019
.....Suicide is the second-leading cause of death (after motor vehicle crashes) in adolescents and young adults, according to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data, and suicide deaths have been rising for nearly two decades, with an especially concerning spike since 2010. Children’s hospital visits for suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts have doubled since 2008.....Most have a mental health condition that is treatable with medication and therapy. Teens described how, when their condition wasn’t fully treated, they had intrusive, depressed, or racing, thoughts. Many said they had suicidal thoughts around the difficulty of coping with social pressures, whether from peers, teachers, or other people in their lives. Other teens told us about going through a breakup, experiencing bullying, or having a fight with a family member. For others, the triggers were the illness or loss of a loved one, or far worse, an event in which they were the victim of or a witness to violence.....
....People often ask me how social media and the internet contribute to teenagers’ risk of suicide. The teens we spoke with rarely discussed them alone as a trigger for their suicidal thoughts. However, for already vulnerable adolescents, technology can provide a forum for more trauma, worsening conflict or isolation. Further, having easy access to information on the internet about how to engage in self-harm can be dangerous for teens with mental health concerns...Sometimes, people who aren’t familiar with caring for teenagers at risk of suicide worry that there is nothing they can do to help if a teen is determined to die. Resoundingly, teenagers expressed just the opposite. They wanted help so that they could stop feeling like they wanted to die.....
That said, teens also shared some difficult memories and fears about what would come next for them. Many adolescents told us that they had feelings of guilt, remorse, or embarrassment about their suicidal crisis. Others worried about the next steps in their treatment. Most of them would require an inpatient mental health hospitalization once they were stabilized in the emergency room, and they worried about the transition to a new healthcare team.....They also worried about what would face them when they returned home. The structure of the hospital was a respite from their thoughts, and they worried that reimmersion in their daily life would bring their worries and triggers right back. This very real concern highlights how important it is for teens to have a supportive community around them as they recover from a mental health crisis....
https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/10/30/20936636/suicide-mental-health-suicidal-thoughts-teens
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"To say that you don't get to feel bad cause someone else has it worse, is the identical logic to saying that you don't get to feel good cause someone else has it better." - Gareth Griffith
“The heart of man is very much like the sea; it has its storms, it has its tides, and in its depths, it has its pearls too.” – Vincent Van Gogh
“A man may conquer a million men in battle, but one who conquers himself is, indeed, the greatest of conquerors.” – Buddha
Here is another topic that is designed to increase discussion and participation in the FFA.
I believe this topic has mostly limited pathways of delving into real world public policy issues, public administration conflict and generally anything politically related.
Is There A Widespread Growing Mental Health Crisis For Both Adult Men And Teenage Boys?
Have you struggled with your mental health in your life? Have your sons and/or nephews and/or other young men in your consistent social/career sphere? What are the pressures in your life that create the stressors that harm your mental health situation? What are your outlets to help manage your stress and mental health situation? What do you see going on around you regarding mental health and young men in general? Have you known any men and/or teenage boys who committed suicide?
What can be done to help adult men and young teenage boys in this regard?
What will happen to the future of our society (i.e. the overall world your children will have to live in) if this crisis is not effectively addressed?
I'll leave this here for others to discuss. (27/30)
Gareth Griffith is committed to creating a space for us all to talk about mental health. He believes that we all benefit from increasing the everyday possibilities to articulate those feelings that are far too often left internalised. Don’t miss this incredibly personal talk in which Gareth shares his story of his battle with depression during his time as an undergraduate student, how he found the space to talk, and how he recovered from this low point through helping others to find that space too.
In high-income nations, men commit suicide at a rate three times higher than women... ( World Health Organization (WHO) report)
According to data...., "Men die by suicide 3.56 [times] more often than women" in the United States.
Furthermore, according to data .... 3 million men in the United States and over 6 million men in the country experience anxiety issues each year. Despite these startling numbers, males are less likely than women to have gotten official mental health support .... according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).
Men of color and men from various racial and cultural backgrounds have particular difficulties while trying to maintain their mental health.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLWEr_kdXl4
VIDEO: Single Young Male Crisis IGNORED By Media | Breaking Points Feb 27 2023
Saagar breaks down troubling new data on the ongoing crisis of young single men in the US.
"It is better to be alone than to be involved in a society that makes you feel alone."
"It's all fun and games until society hits a demographic collapse and is forced to confront the issue."
"Young men without prospects and unmet expectations is a scary thing in any society."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_x_0ow3u8Q
Direct Headline: Are We Facing a Mental Health Crisis for Boys?
By Laura McKenna March 11, 2021
.....“I feel pretty lonely and sometimes depressed... because I don’t have no one to go out with, no one to speak on the phone, no one to tell my secrets,” confided one high school boy ..... “I tried to look for a person, you know, but it’s not that easy.”....America’s teens now seem to be struggling more than ever—especially boys. One study found that the rates of depression increased by 52 percent in teens between 2005 and 2017, and in 2019, 70 percent of teens reported anxiety and depression as major problems. For boys in particular, there has been an alarming rise in suicides among older teens (15 and older) since 2000, and they die by suicide at three to four times the rate of girls.....
.... From an early age, boys are encouraged to bury their feelings and present a tough exterior. Experts say these social dynamics have long-term implications for their mental health....According to experts, boys can struggle more than girls because they have fewer tools to cope with emotions and stressors, and they are less likely to get the help they need. Without the means to effectively process emotions, boys are more prone to lash out in unhealthy ways or alienate themselves.....have trouble talking about emotions and feelings because social norms have encouraged them to conform to a masculine ideal that emphasizes values like stoicism, toughness, and competitiveness....A 2020 survey of more than 1,500 youth ages 13 to 19, for example, found that 81 percent of them reported mental health as a significant issue and 79 percent wished their school talked more about it......
....Data shows that boys are nearly twice as likely to get into physical fights as girls, for example...Because boys tend to lack emotional vocabulary—or they don’t feel free to express their feelings—their behavior becomes their communication.....“When a boy is acting out or is disrespectful, instead of personalizing it, we have to target their behaviors and not assault their character....”
https://www.edutopia.org/article/are-we-facing-mental-health-crisis-boys/
Direct Headline: I treat teens who attempted suicide. Here’s what they told me.
By Stephanie Doupnik Nov 6, 2019
.....Suicide is the second-leading cause of death (after motor vehicle crashes) in adolescents and young adults, according to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data, and suicide deaths have been rising for nearly two decades, with an especially concerning spike since 2010. Children’s hospital visits for suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts have doubled since 2008.....Most have a mental health condition that is treatable with medication and therapy. Teens described how, when their condition wasn’t fully treated, they had intrusive, depressed, or racing, thoughts. Many said they had suicidal thoughts around the difficulty of coping with social pressures, whether from peers, teachers, or other people in their lives. Other teens told us about going through a breakup, experiencing bullying, or having a fight with a family member. For others, the triggers were the illness or loss of a loved one, or far worse, an event in which they were the victim of or a witness to violence.....
....People often ask me how social media and the internet contribute to teenagers’ risk of suicide. The teens we spoke with rarely discussed them alone as a trigger for their suicidal thoughts. However, for already vulnerable adolescents, technology can provide a forum for more trauma, worsening conflict or isolation. Further, having easy access to information on the internet about how to engage in self-harm can be dangerous for teens with mental health concerns...Sometimes, people who aren’t familiar with caring for teenagers at risk of suicide worry that there is nothing they can do to help if a teen is determined to die. Resoundingly, teenagers expressed just the opposite. They wanted help so that they could stop feeling like they wanted to die.....
That said, teens also shared some difficult memories and fears about what would come next for them. Many adolescents told us that they had feelings of guilt, remorse, or embarrassment about their suicidal crisis. Others worried about the next steps in their treatment. Most of them would require an inpatient mental health hospitalization once they were stabilized in the emergency room, and they worried about the transition to a new healthcare team.....They also worried about what would face them when they returned home. The structure of the hospital was a respite from their thoughts, and they worried that reimmersion in their daily life would bring their worries and triggers right back. This very real concern highlights how important it is for teens to have a supportive community around them as they recover from a mental health crisis....
https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/10/30/20936636/suicide-mental-health-suicidal-thoughts-teens
*********
"To say that you don't get to feel bad cause someone else has it worse, is the identical logic to saying that you don't get to feel good cause someone else has it better." - Gareth Griffith
“The heart of man is very much like the sea; it has its storms, it has its tides, and in its depths, it has its pearls too.” – Vincent Van Gogh
“A man may conquer a million men in battle, but one who conquers himself is, indeed, the greatest of conquerors.” – Buddha
Here is another topic that is designed to increase discussion and participation in the FFA.
I believe this topic has mostly limited pathways of delving into real world public policy issues, public administration conflict and generally anything politically related.
Is There A Widespread Growing Mental Health Crisis For Both Adult Men And Teenage Boys?
Have you struggled with your mental health in your life? Have your sons and/or nephews and/or other young men in your consistent social/career sphere? What are the pressures in your life that create the stressors that harm your mental health situation? What are your outlets to help manage your stress and mental health situation? What do you see going on around you regarding mental health and young men in general? Have you known any men and/or teenage boys who committed suicide?
What can be done to help adult men and young teenage boys in this regard?
What will happen to the future of our society (i.e. the overall world your children will have to live in) if this crisis is not effectively addressed?
I'll leave this here for others to discuss. (27/30)